My sister, Kelly, has started an inspiring challenge to keep herself motivated and cheer on others as well. In support, I’ve decided to come up with a few challenges of my own for #project30days. If you’d like to read her original post, it’s here.
In April, I will strive to
- call or text my mom every day
- wake up at 6:30 a.m. each weekday
- go an entire day without using the word, “like” and
- give up Facebook (for 30 days).
The reasons behind these are pretty simple. First, my mom wants me to talk to her more. I often get busy and forget there are other people outside of my usual circle in town (coworkers and friends), who want to hear about my day and how I’m doing. And sometimes, even if it feels like a bother, you should do things to make the people you love happy.
Second, I need to get to work earlier, because I get more done if I do. Also, it means I can leave earlier and there are usually lots of other things to do after work, such as exercising, socializing, eating, etc.
Third, I would say most people of my generation find themselves overusing “like.” I’m not sure how this came about, but this word creeps into my everyday vocabulary, and I cringe every time I use it, but sometimes I feel as though I can’t control it. I really think my biggest problem is speaking too quickly, and trying to fill up every breath with something audible. If I just slowed down a little, and became used to a little dead air, I think more useful and colorful words would fill up my conversations.
Last, I’m not going check Facebook for the entire month of April. I can’t really explain why I log on so often, but sometimes I feel so overwhelmed by it. It’s similar to using “like.” I really don’t enjoy it all that much, but I don’t know how to get rid of it, other than stopping cold turkey. I also feel I would enjoy more the people I’m with and the things I do if I wasn’t so preoccupied with posting something about it on Facebook. Maybe, just maybe, I would have more engaging conversations if I didn’t take the time to “check in” everywhere I go (and then check to see who liked what and what comments people made). And perhaps I would have more genuine smiles and laughs if I wasn’t so concerned about how the pictures will look when I’m tagged in them. I know this all sounds silly, but it’s actually pretty serious, and I don’t think I’m the only one who deals with issues like this.
If you want to join in on #project30days, don’t hesitate to use the banner and post your comments, blog posts, etc. on Twitter and Instagram with #project30days. Tweet-it/Instagram-it to @trimommykelly and @emmylou522 too!